To be great, you must believe in yourself.

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The Fear That’s Killing Positive Beliefs

Why do people lack a strong belief in themselves? The answer is the fear of success.

On the surface, this type of fear may seem crazy. In reality, it’s a fear many experience and sometimes overlook.

What could possibly be so scary about success? Plenty!

How does this manifest in our business? We come up with excuses and convenient rationalizations:

  • “I don’t have time for this.”
  • “This isn’t a fit for me.”
  • “What was I thinking when I started this?”
  • “There’s no way I can deliver.”
  • “This isn’t me.”

These are some of the limiting thoughts that go on in the mind of someone with the fear of success. These then translate to self-limiting beliefs.

It All Starts with Poor Judgment

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Where do the fear of success and negative belief come from? Perhaps when you were younger, you said the following:

  • “I’m going to make the lead in the play!”
  • “I’m going to win first prize in the science fair!”
  • “I’m going to sell more Girl Scout cookies than anyone!”

Then the person or even the society who heard that might have expressed a negative opinion or reaction:

  • “No, you’re not!”
  • “You don’t have what it takes.”
  • “No one in our family did something like that.”
  • “What makes you think you’re better than everyone else?”
  • “Don’t get too big for your britches!”

Stop the Tape and Change Your Belief

Your young mind then took in that limiting belief and started playing a mental tape. It’s one full of “I’m not good enough. Not me. Not in my family. What makes me think I can do that?” that keeps playing over and over again.

The negative thoughts around what you deserve, self-worth, and possibilities are now on auto-play. It plays every time you think about doing something great. When you’re reaching, striving, and dreaming, you use these thoughts as a reason to stop. Depending on how old you are, this tape is in an endless loop for a long time.

 

Well, you know what, you can stop that tape and record over it. With awareness and practice, you can create a new message of strong belief, courage, and commitment. You can develop the faith that you deserve a good life and truly believe you are special in your own way.

What are some of the negative perceptions people have about you? What are you doing to have a better belief system? Share your thoughts below!

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Editor’s Note: This post was originally published on October 17, 2018, and has been updated for quality and relevancy.